Lacking no Good Thing: Relationships

 "Those who seek the Lord lack no good thing." Psalms 34:10

I had the amazing privilege of hosting a dinner with my best friend who I've known for years. We spent elementary, middle school, high school, and college together. A friendship of over 32 years. Her and her husband traveled from Colorado to California and made their rounds throughout the holidays stopping to visit people. Our house was on her route and I was excited as it's been 5 years since I've seen her in person. Their kids have always been super social and friendly, so I was not surprised that when her two boys (12 and 9) met my 4 year old son for the first time, they took off running together in the backyard. No particular reason for the bolting off, just running to run. 

Then their teenage daughter and my two elementary aged girls soon bonded by playing a few games together. They spent time talking about their lives and just getting to know each other. They talked and laughed, and talked and laughed some more in the girls room. I was so pleased with their effortless connection. 

This is the type of bonding and gathering I love to see. Building relationships with good people is a skill I want my children to learn. On most days, my children are with me and not constantly surrounded by the same kids day in and day out. Because of that, I try to be as intentional as I can with creating opportunities for them to really connect with their friends via gatherings, Face timing, letter-writing, or phone calls.  They do in fact have a little crew of kids they've known since birth. It is a rare privilege, and I plan to continue to keep their bond going. 

As I seek the Lord to bless my children with good friends, a discernment to distinguish good friends, and ability to be a good friend, I trust that He will not withhold this from them. He will provide for all of my children's needs. He will not allow them to be lacking in such a fundamental area of their lives. Relationship building is a skill that will last a lifetime. Learning it in the early years is crucial. This is a good thing; building the skills to develop good friendships. I trust the Lord will not let my children lack. 

Dear Lord, I pray that my children seek You and that You provide them with the skills they need to develop lasting friendships. No good thing will you uphold. Those who seek you will lack no good thing. Bless my children with discernment to choose good friends and the ability to be a good friend.

If you have been blessed and you want to share the insights, please pass along to someone who may be blessed as well. May God bless your children with the blessings of God-ordained friendships throughout their lifetime.