A Cheerful Heart
Recounting moments of enjoyment, simple blessings of everyday life, and stories that cheer the heart.
Tuesday, December 23, 2025
Write about Him
Friday, December 19, 2025
Simple Acts Can Be So Profound
A ten minute walk is better
A thank you note is very sweet
But what warms the heart is a letter
Thursday, December 18, 2025
Soft Answers Build, Harsh Words Destroy
"A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1)
I meditated on this verse throughout the day. There were multiple moments I consciously gave soft answers. It is a discipline I'm starting to embrace. I'm not perfect at it, but I'm loving every minute of this challenge. I'm grateful for the many opportunities where I can choose to purposely give soft answers and refrain from harshness. Each of these moments is a win.
This Proverbs 15:1 verse also prompted a few 2 major insights:
- Every child responds to harshness in different ways. Some do not hide their anger and it's very evident how they feel. Other children hold anger within and it's not readily visible. Parents must be careful to not fool themselves into thinking that their harsh words don't affect their child just because you can't immediately see their anger shown visibly.
- Quality time with your child comes in simple moments. Elaborate excursions are wonderful, but daily moments of attention are impactful as well. If I speak in soft non-critical words, if I listen when a story is told, if I give my attention to the small moments, this builds a foundation for when my kids get older. Soon, they will come to trust me and share with me bigger and more self-disclosing secrets. In due time, my listening ear will be needed.
Wednesday, December 17, 2025
Misty Mountain Morning Haiku
Tuesday, December 16, 2025
The Law of Kindness
"She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness." Proverbs 31:26
What a beautiful ideal to strive for. A woman who is wise and kind. One who's guided by a "law of kindness." This is the vision I have for myself. Here are two examples of wisdom and kindness where I walked alignment with this.
Wisdom. Conversation with Norah about the importance of having a tidy and clean home for Dad to come home to and for us to all enjoy at the end of the day. After pouring my heart out to her about this, she seemed to embrace it and understand it. Sometimes while driving on our half hour drive to town, she loves to talk about how she plans to order her life as a wife and mother. I imagined her taking this bit of wisdom and holding on to it to use when she has her own family.
Kindness. A quick stop at the library turned into a pleasant visiting with librarians Karen, Mary, and Emily. Karen is probably our favorite. She's the one who loves to hide behind the computer and lift her eyes up to say hello over her glasses to all of the Dean kids. I could've dropped in and left, instead, simply asked a few questions and the conversation went on from there. I asked the girls to come and say hello and they too asked her how she was doing. This wasn't natural. Kindness and courtesy is learned. I'm glad we are practicing it in our daily interactions with people.
Sunshine Gives me Life
Monday, December 15, 2025
Highway 1 Haiku
Santa Cruz area is a beautiful place. While driving on Highway 1, I allowed myself to just observe and enjoy the terrain. Here is the haiku that emerged.